According to
hurlock ( 1981 ) teenager is they who are at the age of 12-18 years. Monks, dkk
( 2000 ) place restrictions early adolescence is 12-21 years. According to
stanley hall ( in santrock, 2003 ) early adolescence is at a range 12-23 years.
Based on the given
limitations of experts, it can be seen that the beginning of adolescence is relatively
the same, but the end of adolescence vary widely. There is even a term also
known as teenagers were extended, and teenagers were shortened.
Youth is a time
filled with problems. This statement is already expressed in the past that is
distant in the early 20th century by the father of Adolescent Psychology which
Stanley Hall. Opinion stanley hall at the time: that adolescence is the storms
and pressure ( storm and stress ) until now is still much quoted people.
According to erickson adolescence is a time of
the occurrence of an identity crisis or the quest for identity. Erickson this idea supported by james marcia who discovered that
there are four the status of identity in adolescents namely identity diffusion
/ confussion, moratorium, foreclosure, and achieved identity (Santrock, 2003,
Papalia, dkk, 2001, Monks, dkk, 2000, Muss, 1988). Characteristic teenager
process to seek identity is also often cause trouble on the self teens.
Gunarsa (1989) summarizes some of
the characteristics of youth who can give rise to various problems in
adolescents, namely:
1.
Awkwardness
in intercourse and stiffness in motion
2.
The
instability of emotion
3.
The
feeling empty due to reshuffle views and clues to life
4.
The
presence of and defiant attitude opposed to old people
5.
A
division and dissension in her often become the base of a cause
pertentangan-pertentang with the old man
6.
Uneasiness
as of many things desirable but remaja couldn ' t add up
7.
Happy
bereksperimentasi.
8.
Happy
bereksplorasi
9.
Has
a lot of fantasy, a delusion, and gibberish
10. A tendency form
a group and inclinations activities groups.
Based
on a review theory development, early adolescence is a time when the changes
the swift including the changes the fundamentals in cognitive aspects,
emotions, and the social (Fagan, 2006). Most teens are able to cope with this
transition very well, but some teens may experience a decrease in psychic
conditions, physiological, and social. Some problems of teenagers who appeared
usually are associated with characteristics in adolescents. The following
summarized some of the main problems experienced by teenagers.
The
issue of physical and health
Problems due to change in physical
many perceived by remaja the beginning of puberty when they suffered. In
adolescents already finished the pubertasnya ( remaja central and final ) the
issue of physical happened associated with discontent / concern them against
physical state owned that is usually not in accord with physical idyilic to be
desired. They also often compare physical with physical others or idola-idola
them. This often results in physical problems they are less confident. Levine
& ampères. ; smolak ( 2002 ) declaring that 40-70 % remaja women feel
dissatisfaction on two or more of a part of the body Especially on the hip the
rump the abdomen and the thigh. In a research survey also found almost 80 %
remaja this experiencing dissatisfaction with the physical condition (
kostanski &; gullone, ampères. 1998 ). Discontent will themselves this very
closely related to emotion, distress excessive thoughts about appearance,
depression, low self-esteem, the onset of smoking, and behavior meal maladaptiv
(& Shaw, 2003; Stice & Whitenton, 2002). Further, discontent
will body image of this can be as an omen the beginning of the emergence of a
disorder of eating as anorexia or bulimia (Polivy & Herman, 1999; Thompson
et al).
In health problems not much remaja
who suffered chronic ill health. The problem that is sleep deprivation, much
going on a disorder of eating, and the use of illegal drugs. Some accidents,
even the cause of death in adolescents largest was characteristic of those who
love bereksperimentasi and berskplorasi.
HADIST 1
رْتَحَلَتِ الدُّنْيَا مُدْبِرَةً ، وَارْتَحَلَتِ الآخِرَةُ
مُقْبِلَةً ، وَلِكُلِّ وَاحِدَةٍ مِنْهُمَا بَنُونَ ، فَكُونُوا مِنْ أَبْنَاءِ
الآخِرَةِ ، وَلاَ تَكُونُوا مِنْ أَبْنَاءِ الدُّنْيَا ، فَإِنَّ الْيَوْمَ
عَمَلٌ وَلاَ حِسَابَ ، وَغَدًا حِسَابٌ وَلاَ عَمَلَ
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“That
world will go away. While hereafter be approaching. & ampères. the world;
hereafter have a child. Be hereafter children & amp; do not you become a
tributary of the world. Today (in the world) is the day of charity & amp;
is not the day of reckoning (the reckoning), While tomorrow (in the hereafter)
is a day of reckoning (CALCULATION) & amps; is not a charity day.” (HR.
Bukhari)
HADIST 2
“Solitude
is better than berkawan with the bad, and the Righteous Brothers get along
better than solitude. Talking is good better than dwell and dwell is better
than talk (chat) is bad” (HR. Al Hakim)
OPINION
ABOUT TEENAGER
TEENAGER is the difficult and easily
affected by environment, this may result in a teenager fall on the negative,
but it can be avoided by means of the approach is interesting and appropriate
religious adolescence.
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1.
RIYAN
SUNANDAR (11410036)
2.
WAHYU
ARIS CAHYONO (11410035)
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YOSEPH
HIDAYATULLAH
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